suicide is a selfish act

SUICIDE IS A SELFISH ACT

Individuals who experience suicidal ideations do not do so by choice. They are not simply ‘thinking of themselves’.

Many people who attempt suicide feel they are a ‘burden’ to others, and that their friends and family would be ‘better off’ without them.

While some people recognise that their death may cause their loved one’s pain, they may also believe they are causing more pain by being alive. They rationalise suicide as a way to protect those they care about. In their mind suicide as quite selfless.

National expansion continues

The new year heralded further national expansion for Roses in the Ocean with the establishment of offices in Sydney to deliver trained and supported Lived Experience Advisory Groups across NSW.

New team members Bridget and Bec (aptly nicknamed B1 and B2) take on the roles of NSW Lived Experience Project Coordinator and Project Administrator, respectively.

Bridget brings five years of experience working in mental health, community development, and youth work positions, and has recently completed a master’s in social work. In her spare time, she enjoys yoga, writing poetry, birdwatching, cuddling her cats, and strolls in nature. Bridget has recently made a “tree change” and now lives in the beautiful Blue Mountains.

Bec has more than 12 years’ experience working at high levels of state government administration including NSW Corrective Services and the Mental Health Review Tribunal. She is extremely passionate about social justice and human welfare, and it shows when talking about all things related to the human condition. In Bec’s spare time she likes to read books relating to psychology, volunteer at a Sydney-based dog shelter and play competitive sports.

The NSW Lived Experience Project, funded by NSW Health, will result in the formation of Lived Experience Advisory Groups in each of the state’s local health districts (LHD).

The groups will share their lived experience to offer vital insights on four key initiatives; alternatives to emergency departments, zero suicides in care methodology, postvention services, and assertive community outreach models.

Each LHD will be approached by the team to start conversations around finding people in each area who want to lend their lived experience voice to suicide prevention. Once those individuals are engaged, they will receive the “Our Voices in Action” and “LaunchPad” training. From there, a Lived Experience Advisory Group will be formed with the trained participants, and Bridget, Bec, and the LHD staff will work collaboratively to support the group and enable them to be a part of facilitating systemic change in their region.

While the challenges of COVID-19 have caused upcoming training to be postponed, expressions of interest for workshops are still being taken. Keep an eye out for the rescheduled dates as they become available!

Bridget and Bec are very humbled to be joining Roses in the Ocean during this time of exponential growth and are excited about the opportunities this project brings for creating grassroots change.

Congratulations Hayley and Sam

Sam Fewings and Hayley Purdon both made significant achievements this past month.

At the Murrumbidgee Voices of In-sight workshop, Sam was the lead facilitator for the very first time with Layne.

“Although I was nervous and excited at the same time, it was a very enjoyable and enriching moment,” Sam said about his first time as a workshop facilitator.

“I continue to be amazed at the strength and poignancy of the stories that are shared at Roses in the Ocean workshops,” Sam said.

Hayley recently co-facilitated for the first time at the Woden Voices of In-sight workshop.

“Thank you to all the well-wishers and for the great advice,” Hayley said.

“I was excited to be co-facilitating this workshop with Layne.”

“I learnt so much from Layne but also from the participants,” Hayley said.

“We all have very moving and significant stories,” Hayley said.

Both Sam and Hayley are looking forward to their next workshops.

Congratulations and well-done Sam and Hayley!